Seeing pictures of the fruits of someone else's successes sometimes makes us

acutely aware of the situations and things that are not working very well

in our own lives.  This is normally on a purely material level.

While some people  might have achieved material and professional goals

long before you have,  they, on the other hand,  may have spent years

accumulating money and building businesses and may not have achieved

the personal and spiritual growth and goals that you have,

like having children and developing close relationships with them

and learning to take responsibility in personal relationships,

including very close friendships, and developing your own inner self.

If you have achieved any of these personal goals,

please know that these accomplishments

and personal choices  in your life have an enormous value,

and affect all the people you come into contact with,

because you are spreading your harmony

and your happiness to everyone you meet.

While money is a very valuable tool,  it is an illusion

that it will bring you more happiness,  more time, more togetherness, more friends, more fun.

Because there is no one right way to evolve, or pursue your soul's path.

And it is up to you to choose whatever is best for you.

In society, there is so much value placed on having money

and making money, and the illusion that this is the Spring well

from which all things come forth.

But Love is the true Spring well and is as abundant as the air you breathe.

Having more time, more friends, deeper friendships, connecting with your kids, having children,

having love relationships, a better marriage - none of these are dependent on having money,

unless we place that value on them in our own minds.

Sometimes we go into relationships, both personal and in business,

that are not in alignment with who we truly are, and no amount of money

or material success will change that.

Eating well and being able to spend quality time

with your loved ones or on your own

is not dependent on having or making a lot of money.

We have a tendency to give away our power

to those who are making lots of money

when we have deluded ourselves into thinking

that this is the secret of the Universe.

This is not to say that having and making money

and coming into your power is a bad thing,  or that it is a good thing.

Or that we should not own up to our commitments.

Since everything is energy, I would not say it is "good" or "bad".

If any area of your life is not what you want it to be,

then one of your beliefs in that area needs to be changed.

We can see our minds as a map, and when we feel this way

we can get a new map, or revise the old one.

We help others by achieving more peace and happiness in our own thoughts.

And remember, that while the material things that we desire are a very good indication of what our

life path is at the present time, it is always of equal or greater value to create things and situations

that will benefit us and others even after our time has passed.

Creating things and relationships that you can take with you have preference over creating inanimate objects

or relationships based on money.

Also, keep in mind that our life path changes from time to time and that we need to change with it.

Here following is a practice that you can follow to help change your thoughts:

List now the main things you think about (money, car, gas, home, clothes, food, career, friends, family, health),

and rate how positively you feel about these things on a scale of one to ten: One being negative and ten being positive.

Then rate them - how high and positive do your thoughts look? 

Take one area that you rated very lowly and create a movie in your mind of how you would like that area to be.

Be very descriptive and you can even make a video of it, using free pictures on the Internet.

Contact me if you want to learn how to do this for free.  And i would love to hear any feedback from you or answer any questions.

Angela Wickenberg

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